On being called “fake”.
Have you ever been called fake despite the words coming outta your mouth?
EMOTIONAL PRODSY is the nonlinguistic speech that communicate emotional information to a listner.
I would often be accused of being sarcastic , snooty, fake and weird .
It was always hurtful.
I was being myself.
I couldn’t understand what it was that *I* did wrong.
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I was being judged for the *non linguistic * cues from my voice.
I thought I was conveying one thing, they would HEAR something else.
(Real talk… it’s exhausting being misunderstood . Having what I’m saying being judged as fake conjures up much anxiety. I’ve restructured social interaction BECAUSE of this. People can’t misinterpreted a “tone” in a picture vs my voice…get me?)